Sam Wall

What to do, and what to avoid like the plague, when you’re crushing on someone hard.

You’ve got a few layers to this question, so let’s peel them off and look at them one by one. Let’s get “is this normal” out of the way first. Normal is a deeply unhelpful concept when it comes to sex. We can talk about how common certain behaviors or desires are, although even then that may not be…

If you’re having difficulties, know that there are people out there who are ready and willing to help you.

Dating doesn’t have to be dreadful!

“He was genuinely trying to understand me and listen and everything, but he just didn’t get it, because he’s been watching porn for years and never really known anything else? About a week ago we were texting and he asked me if I had ever sexted with anyone before, and I said I had (which wasn’t a…

I can spot one big thing that’s making sex unpleasant for you, and it has zero to do with your brain or body being “wrong”. It’s got everything to do with your boyfriend. Before I go into why that is, there’s something else that needs addressing. You mention someone abused you as a child, and I’m so…

This tool is for kids, staff, and parents/guardians who want more trans-inclusive policies at school.

Finding clothing and other things that make you feel at home in your body can feel overwhelming. We’ve got you!

Advice for sorting good information from the bad.

Yes, the adolescent brain makes impulsive behavior more likely. That doesn’t mean young adults don’t know what they want or what they’re talking about.