When it comes to sex and dating beyond the binary, not only are we given no blueprint, no representation, and no guide whatsoever, but we’re also working against the heteronormative messages we’ve all been indoctrinated with by media and culture from birth. Here are five ways I’ve learned to safely and creatively navigate dating spaces as a nonbinary person.
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Articles and Advice in this area:
- Liz Duck-Chong
What do trans people mean when they talk about “passing privilege”? And is it always a privilege?
- Riley Johnson
Riley shares how their own understanding of their identity is still in progress.
- Sam Wall
Jiz is a nonbinary performer, speaker, author, and the driving force behind Coming Out Like a Porn Star, a collection chronicling how different porn performers have “come out” to family, friends, and loved ones. I asked Jiz their thoughts on identity, ethics, and the realities of making porn.
- s.e. smith
So you’re ready to start talking openly about your gender, and you want to come out of the shadows and live as yourself.
- s.e. smith
So you’ve thought about sex and gender and all that good stuff and a little bird is telling you that you might be trans. But how do you know?
- s.e. smith
We’re going to go in deep on sex, gender, and identity in this installment of Trans Summer School.
- s.e. smith
Experiencing a little gender confusion? We know the feeling. In Trans Summer School, we’ll give you the big scoop about trans and otherwise gender nonconforming people, and answer your questions about the wide world of gender.
- Mo Ranyart
Gender identity can be complicated, and often people who are questioning aren’t comfortable in that space - but it’s a totally valid place to be.
- Sam Wall
Many trans or gender non-conforming youth come to us looking for support they’re having difficulty finding, or don’t feel safe looking for elsewhere.